Friday, March 20, 2009

~Contemporary Marital Advice~

A contemporary woman advised her daughter saying:

You are about to enter a new life; different from the one you grew up in, a life in which you will not have your father, mother nor your brothers and sisters. You will become the wife of a man who wants nobody to share you with him, even your closest relative. 

You should be to him like a wife and a mother; make him feel that you are everything in his life. You should keep in mind that a man is like a big child; the slightest sweet word can make him happy. Never make him feel that by marrying you, you will lose your family and relatives, because he has left his family as well for you. Normally, a woman longs for her family's affection and home, in which she grew up. However, she should get used to her new life and her husband who is her children's father and support. My daughter, this is your life and future, the new family, which you and your husband will form. I do not ask you to forget your mother, father and brothers and sisters because they will never forget you. All I want from you is that you love and live with your husband and feel happy with him.

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